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  Another failed project, recorded again . The same feeling of bitter-sweet,  bitter  because I wasn’t able to go through my goals and I probably just wasted months of my life on something I truly believed would create an impact.  Sweet  because I know where the mistake was and so now I can come back another time stronger and better than ever before.  You will be surprised at how many failed projects it takes for most people to get the right thing going it , we often underestimate what it takes to get things working very well simply because we are so focused on what works already, but that road is definitely not an easy one to navigate. Clear the Myth I’ll start here by clearing a myth most people have which is to think that  the failure of a project is the result of a mistake or something not done right,  you can do everything right and still fail. This is why we set standards, we establish principles, because we are all still coming to an unders...

  Happiness is  an elusive yet cherished state of being and varies from one individual to another.   It dances across the spectrum of human experiences, touching hearts and souls in countless ways. Let's explore what this emotion is and discover together what it means to you. The question you should strive to answer at the end of the day is   where do you find your happiness? The Simple Joys Here is where most people find their happiness, the everyday moments like  a simple sip of coffee in the morning, the warmth of the sunlight on your skin, the shared laughter with loved ones.  These small gestures we often take for granted often times prove to be the greatest source of joy we often miss out on in our quest for more. Happiness in purpose and fulfillment You are work driven and focused on your objectives to achieve great things, you wake up early, sleep late and ignore all other pleasures with your main focus being on the fulfillment of your purpose. Whet...

  Having a clear understanding of   what it takes  is detrimental to every success.  In the same way you enjoy knowing the distance a journey takes you so that you can prepare yourself mentally, that's the same knowing what it takes would help you get ready for all the other endeavors you get in. Unfortunately, we can’t always determine this quite easily, I can’t tell you how much work you’ll need to put in to achieve your goals, it's not as easy as measuring the distance between two cities and calculating the time it will take to get there. Won’t it be wonderful if we could do that? For you to be able to determine the precise amount of work and effort required to achieve your goals, but unfortunately for us,  this isn’t a linear process and varies based on a lot of factors . For some, achieving a goal might just take the  right calls being placed,  while for others, achieving the same goals might require  years of work and persistence , yet again...

  When you reach a certain age, you are going to notice people change around you.   Whether it's friends who don’t speak to you anymore, or it's relatives who only care about what you can give them.   It might even be yourself without realizing, you will change from the person you once were and some people might tell you that. Since I left college, I’ve drifted away from a lot of my friends, for the most part we don’t talk anymore, with the rest we try to keep in touch from time to time and I have already had some people tell me I changed, I am no longer the person I use to be. From my point of view I don’t think I’ve changed, nothing feels different to me.  I am the same old guy who loves computers, a little shy, if anything has changed that will be my age, I have just grown older.  However, this doesn’t come as a surprise to me, and in this article we are going to look at the reasons why. The Pursuit of Growth One of the primary reasons we change is the pursui...